Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confidence. Show all posts

Tuesday, 17 November 2009

Developing Hunger

Developing Hunger

Keep a scrapbook, why? Let me tell you a story of mine?

I was working quite content one day for hour's and hour's on a project I have running at the moment, I was full of determination, ambition, confidence. I was feeling very alive and in the zone as so to speak. I decided enough was enough for a day though I had accomplished a chunk of my goal. I knew tomorrow would be another day. So I laid my work down to rest.

The next day, I got up in the morning and felt ready to begin my work but not before my chores so I flicked on some music and began to tidy up. I got round to sitting down to do my work, but when I had sat down ready to delve into my work. I didn't have the same determination, ambition and confidence I had the day before. I then did what any normal human being would do.....I began to procrastinate.

The good thing was I knew I was procrastinating, I set myself some time to fulfill my procrastination in order to be healthy, then set my self a limit. When I went to do my work I just couldn't get my mind to raise to the task at hand. I became frustrated and looked at my project like a waste of time. It was for me to be able to afford to do something next year I have always wanted to do. I became so frustrated I couldn't procrastinate as I got fed up with myself.

I started to look at the thing's I loved and desired in life. I decided I was going to recreate my success and fake some bank balances, to help me feel good then I'd drift into a trance and awake from it with determination, ambition and confidence. Then continue to work.

Fake it till it is real!""

I did this with unbelievable accuracy, I scanned all my documents, balances editing them and printing them out with ridiculous but realistic figures on my ideal income. I began searching the Internet frantically looking for my dream mansion, sure enough I found the Playboy mansion. The mansion itself looked determined, ambitious and confident. I even google mapped it so I could have an idea of the layout and size. I continued my search of perfection, from Helicopters and Yachts to Cakes and Teas. I tranced out for a little while in my own little world and tried to be comfortable even passive with my new belongings, then I went on a trip to paradise. It felt wonderful. The next day I got round to my doing my work it was as if my goals had already been fulfilled and I worked flawlessly solving the problems of yesterday like I was too advanced to be in trouble.

I guess what I'm trying to say is if your trying to achieve something or have something set as a reward or goal. It is probably in your best interest to become aware of all these things. Keep focused on your goals and regards and live them. You are then more likely to attain everything you desire and maintain the hunger needed to complete what's neccessary.

Keeping a scrapbook of your personal paradise will bring you back to the roots of your desire's and also help you maintain your view on the big picture!!

Build your desires and hunger with the six magic questions (click here!!)

Friday, 13 November 2009

Hypnotist A Go Go

A Hypnotists Diary

When it came to me practising hypnotism I never really knew where to start. There is some vast reading readily available on the topic but it seemed too much to organise and make useful. I didn't really have a structured method of learning, I was gaining a lot of new information and techniques, but, I wasn't organising it in my mind as I was learning. The key to good professional learning is being able to easily organise the information in your mind.

The only way I thought I was going to master the art of hypnosis with NLP was to practise it until it became second nature. The only people I had readily available to practise on was family and friends, which can be a daunting task as family and friends do tend to be cynical of your abilities. People do tend to have a negative attitude to hypnotists. As there are social myths that a hypnotist can control your mind and make you do things against your will..... I wish!!

If I was able to control people in that way I would finally have a army of money making minions. It wouldn't be so bad. You'd live rich and nearby in one of my owned communities doing the thing you love whilst living happily. If I had a personal life coach, I'd have them push me to become the person I wanted to be. The thing is I have to be my own life coach, I'm the higher power in control of myself, because your the only person that can hypnotise yourself as I myself am. Hypnotist's are just there to make you aware of the resources you have already to make changes in your own life. We are all just Flesh and Bone. If a life Coach came along and made me a millionaire through effortless work living happily, I would gladly pay them their dues.

I figured to myself while practising hypnotism to become professional I would give the family a discount (free!!). What I would do is give them them access to resources I felt that would benefit them in what there current situations. I come from a big family with lots of brothers and sisters, our extended family is huge and close, my parents were very poor but are now well off and have definitely paid their dues to society.

But, unfortunately for a practising hypnotist my family are like any other they still have the old beliefs drilled into them about hypnotists being controlling.

Thursday, 29 October 2009

Confidence is King

Confidence can get people a lot of things in life. Confidence is a state of mind when you have a belief and trust in your powers. Confidence shines when your self conscious is silenced (those little voices in your head that seemingly are forever judging you). Confidence by a Zen definition is to actually live in each moving moment, there is only now.

"Whether you think you can or you can't- you are right!" Henry Ford

Now don't be confused here, confidence is not the same as courage. If you are living in fear of something, then you will need to attain courage before your confidence can truly be reinstated.
At this moment we are going to take a look at confidence.

Confidence is not a game of ego superiority it is more to do with recognising the intrinsic worth of all human beings including yourself. People can be confidently professional in their own worth, take a look at your doctor whom you trust with your life, you would respect them if they knew what they were doing if they saved your life.

The thing about confidence is about silencing the voices/the self consciousness in your mind that can be like a constant chatter and acting without hesitation. Confidence is alertness and living in the moment, not thinking about the past or what is to be in the future. It is just right now.

It's best described and a great attainment in Zen Buddhism. Confidence is sometimes confused with something else, Courage. Courage is different to confidence as courage is more to do with acting in the face of fear. Courage is only attained after fear is faced and have attained what it is that they have set out to do. Confidence on the over hand is being sure in one self and actually living rather than creating issues for courage to deal with.

This is my artist depiction of of Courage vs Confidence as you can see it's not confidence wrong but someone acting courageous after feeling the fear.

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Okay so I'm not much of an artist yet but I still think it's pretty good art.

Looking at it who's going to prison the confident or the courageous. The courageous is the on a revenge trip his self conciousness is ruling him in the background. While the confidence and alertness has grabbed the foreground guy the attention and the hot lady.

The thing about hypnotism is that it can give you confidence and yes too much confidence does become arrogance if their is no compassion. Luckily though compassion is also easily obtainable.

The majority of people that hires hypnotherapists are lacking not only the confidence to deal with their own problems but they are also lacking resources. Shortly after this post in my blog I hope to develop something that will give you back your confidence so keep an eye out for this. It will be invaluable.

Thursday, 1 October 2009

Potential Unlocked

I've gone on chatting about how great hypnotism is, the money potential that people can earn applying hypnosis. I'd now like to look at the potential of hypnosis. This is all based on my experience's through not actually being hypnotised by someone else but through Self hypnosis.

Hypnotism can be used as a cure for phobias, This is generally in a clinical and professional atmosphere. Something people don't know is that hypnotist was sometimes applied before surgery as a pain suppressant in the old medicinal society. It is a clinical tool. Thanks to modern advancements in technology we have drugs that now take care of this. So Clinical hypnosis is now used mainly for mental issues. The most common things hypnotherapists treat is:

  • Stopping Smoking
  • Weight Loss
  • Sleep Disorders
  • Confidence
  • Past Lives
  • Fear of Flying
  • Fear of Travelling
  • Future Progression
  • Sexual Performance
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • IBS Treatment
  • Stress and Depression Management
  • Etc

These are all things that a hypnotherapist tends to deal with, the crazy thing is though you can do all this yourself through self hypnosis. You may not be able to do some of things yourself as a hypnosis will have more experience, resources and techniques to help aid you farther.

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